Wild Thing

I saw "Where The Wild Things Are" over the weekend and absolutely fell in love with the movie. I laughed, I cried, I did the hokey-pokey and I turned myself around.

For those who have yet to see this movie stop reading now until you see it. This entry is a major plot spoiler.





Really? You're still reading.....





No seriously, I'm going to give you a blow by blow account of the movie.......





Don't say I didn't warn you...






Here I go....







I'm goooooiiiiinnnnngggg.....







Anytime now..........








Gone....



I had no pre-conceived notion of the movie and I never read the books as a kid. I was still living in the Philippines and I was only allowed to read the Encyclopedia and school books. My dad was never around to read to me and on the rare occassion that he was home, he would have me read to him instead. My mom on the other hand was occupied with domestic chores and in keeping an orderly home for my sisters and I.

The movie was about a mischievous kid and his emotional journey of childhood angst from losing a father, dealing with his mom and her boyfriend and a sister who completely ignored him. It was a very emotional movie and I found myself sobbing halfway through the end the movie. Anyone who grew up in a semi-dysfunctional to highly-dysfunctional family can totally relate to this movie :)

The "Wild Things" in my interpretation were his emotions whether its anger, sadness, or doubt. Each monster in the movie represented an emotion. The story is centered on Max's growth, survival, change and fury. As the movie progressed, I couldn't help but think about my childhood experiences and how much I wanted to make sense of everything because nothing did. I relied heavily upon my mom's guidance or my sisters leads and when both were unavailable to provide comfort, I am often left to fend for myself.

Throughout the movie, Max had his one on one encounter with the Wild Things. As he conquered each emotion/monster, he started to feel confident about himself until such a time that he finally found the peace and acceptance in his heart that the wild things were now reigned in and that he was ready to take his next journey - growth.

The main character amongst the Wild Things was Carol. He was the mirror image of Max. One of the most touching part of the movie for me was when Max made a heart shaped drawing on the ground with the initial C out of popsicle sticks. Its as if Max realized that in order to change and grow, he would have to accept everything about him. Embrace the emotions, all the "wild things" and only through acceptance can there be love and growth.

Isn't that so true even as an adult? There are still parts of me that I am still trying to make peace with. At times I struggle with it and there are times when I just raise the flag and accept that there are some things about myself that I can never change and that's okay.

Drained from the move and all the organizing and cleaning, I took it easy on Sunday and hung out with the girls. My place is still a giant mess but at least my bed, bathroom and kitchen are now in order.

We hung out at Azmeera's, smoked some hooka, drank some bubblies, people watched on her roof, ate pizza and called it wonderful.

Here's a couple of hilarious videos that Tanya and Azmeera took of me while smoking the hookah and having the smoke come out of my nose only. LOL!

Round 1

Round 2

Reigning it all in

Jakey

New Kid on the Block

Seven months ago I planted a seed of idea. I sent out an intention to the Universe...the Source...God, if you will, that I will once again pursue the idea of moving to the city. My friends and family have all known about my wanting to move to SF for a long time. But every single time I've attempted, something always happened whether it's a change of job, relationship, heart, or just life happening in general.

Seven months later, on the seventh day of the month, and apartment #7, I got what I wanted. I found my perfect little studio, in my perfect little neighborhood in Hayes Valley. Not only is it steps away from the Symphony, Opera and Ballet, it's even on the same street! How's that for manifesting! I trust that everything happens for a reason and that timing is everything. My time has come for me to once again pack my stuff and transplant.

On my birthday this year, I remember walking around the Island of Boracay thinking about what I wanted for lunch. I remember telling my friends the exact food that I wanted to eat, how I would like it prepared and served. A few minutes later, we walked into a restaurant and they had what I wanted, right down to the banana leaf platter that I was describing just moments ago. My friend Zita was so impressed by how fast things manifested for me. You see, she's a strong believer of that book "The Secret". It's basically a book about creating an intention and letting your mind and the Universe work together to manifest what it is you really want. It can be as simple as a perfect meal, a parking spot or something bigger like landing a new job or meeting a Brad Pitt look alike at your local adult watering hole. The point of the book is to focus on what it is you really want, imagine the end result and then send out this invisible energy out to the Universe and in return, it will be granted. This school of thought falls under the branch of Metaphysics.

So can you just imagine my delight when I found my new place? It is everything I have asked for. Walking distance to the symphony, close to my favorite wine bar, and at a price that is a steal! The best part is my unbelievable walk-in closet. It's at least 10ft long...Aaaaahhhh!!!! Plenty of room for all my shoes, clothes and purses :) Another added bonus is a small deck in the back that is perfect for bbq'ing. Not that I'll be doing a lot of that right now but it's nice to have all the same.

I signed my lease on Friday and got my "welcome to the neighborhood" ticket. It was street cleaning day from 12:00-2:00pm. It sucks, but it will force me to really get to know the stupid schedules of the spots around my neighborhood. I moved all weekend long, up and down the stairs, huffing and puffing. It always amazes me how much crap I accumulate in such little amount of time. I mean, I was only with my mom for a little over 2 years, yet it felt like I've moved an entire house! Thank goodness for my beloved friends and family who was there with me every step of the way. I could never have done it by myself even if I tried really hard. It was just impossible.

Pictures to come as soon as I get some kind of order in my place. The current state of my floor is a sea of bags, wine bottles, cups, corks, and unopened boxes of furnitures waiting to be assembled.

Jakey

Party Bus

Yeay! Another one of my long time girlfriend turned 30 over the weekend. We did the whole party bus and had a blast!

The bus was totally pimped. It had wood laminate flooring, plushed leather seats and a dancing pole! I did a little number for the girls and had so much fun. I even got tipped. Not bad for a Begginer :)

This is the first time I've pole danced for a bunch of girls. I have to admit that it was fun dancing for the girls. There was a whole lot of bootie grabbing and pinching and towards the end they were all dancing with me. I also got to teach some of the girsl some tricks. I think I really want my own dancing pole now and throw a girls only party. Super Fun!

Dearest Santa Baby,

I want my own Hot Pink Dancing Pole for Christmas ;-)

Love,
Your #1 fan

See complete pictures here:

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iPole,
Jakey